), but the benefits can certainly outweigh those little things. I think it felt good for him that an 18-year-old was choosing to spend time with him.They split up around 2009 and I didn’t hear from him for 18 months.
Now, I’m not saying these are conscious reasons why dating a man quite a bit older—there have been several moments when I’ve thought that going out with someone closer to my age would be much simpler.Young adult women typically have more of a need for connection.While they will create careers, they also want to eventually create a family.He doesn't give a shit if you haven't shaved in a few days. " Older guys probably have nieces or nephews or neighbor kids by this point and can interact with a child in a normal way. He doesn't try to get away with not using a condom.Thankfully, most guys grow out of being the Leg Hair Police in their mid-20s. In his years of dating, he's probably been with a woman during a pregnancy scare and now fully understands the value of family planning.14. Oooh, yeah, work that upholstery attachment that you read about in the Miele manual.4. Every guy comes to the realization that being jealous of your guy friends just makes him look sad and lame.He knows what he wants and he won't waste your time if you're not it. He won't have a nervous breakdown about meeting your parents. Added bonus: He'll probably get along with your parents better because he's a little (tiny! Not that he's old, but he'll rock out to Hendrix with your dad in the man cave and not feel too weird about it.8. Practice makes orgasms, or however that saying goes.9.We started dating and it developed into a relationship shortly after. My friend (who was my age and in high school with me) worked at a ski resort near us.Her older brother had invited a bunch of the people they worked with at the mountain over and I happened to be there.Not that there's anything wrong with Cheez-Its, but nobody likes a clinger.15. If he likes you, why would he avoid you until it's deemed societally appropriate to text?Anyone who’s been in a serious long-term relationship knows the journey isn’t without certain challenges, and when you’re dating an older man—we’re talking a decade or more—things can get even trickier.You didn't want to be with that guy who wanted an "outdoorsy girl" anyway. And he knows that vulvas don't usually look like two unused Pink Pearl erasers and smell like Bath and Body Works vanilla bean. Either way, older guys are more likely to be the most comfortable snuggle you've ever had.12. Have you ever seen an early-twentysomething guy get handed a baby?Having seen more than two vulvas, he knows each is a beautiful and unique orchid and he won't hesitate to compliment yours.10. He holds it out from his body like he has stiff little Tyrannosaurus arms and the baby hangs there like, "Who the fuck handed me to this beer-breathed sociopath in cargo shorts?These are all the stereotypical reasons people tend to think older men love to date younger women.